Incoming WE 2024-09-22

A smorgasbord over the last few weeks

  • Thermidor: Lobster dish!
  • Mendacity: Dishonesty
  • Hypochondria – excessive and undue worry about having a serious health condition. I could not recall the word today and had to look it up.
  • Category error: is a semantic or ontological error in which things belonging to a particular category are presented as if they belong to a different category, or, alternatively, a property is ascribed to a thing that could not possibly have that property.
  • What do Language Models actually model? _"The idea is that cognition doesn’t end at the brain and the person doesn’t end at the the skin. Rather, cognition is extended. Personhood is messy, ambiguous, intertwined with the existence of others, and so on." Human language is an activity is one in which "various opportunities and risks are perceived, engaged with, and managed."
  • Hendrik Karlsson on Becoming Perceptive
  • The Ruthless Edit – advice from Rick Rubin, on Jim Nielsen’s blog, that is so immediately relevant to my current circumstance. Reminds me of this post I saw from Dr. Jason Fox

NYTimes on early retirement: The schemers and savers obsessed with ending their careers as early as possible

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Incoming WE 2024-09-22

A smorgasbord over the last few weeks

  • Thermidor: Lobster dish!
  • Mendacity: Dishonesty
  • Hypochondria – excessive and undue worry about having a serious health condition. I could not recall the word today and had to look it up.
  • Category error: is a semantic or ontological error in which things belonging to a particular category are presented as if they belong to a different category, or, alternatively, a property is ascribed to a thing that could not possibly have that property.
  • What do Language Models actually model? _"The idea is that cognition doesn’t end at the brain and the person doesn’t end at the the skin. Rather, cognition is extended. Personhood is messy, ambiguous, intertwined with the existence of others, and so on." Human language is an activity is one in which "various opportunities and risks are perceived, engaged with, and managed."
  • Hendrik Karlsson on Becoming Perceptive
  • The Ruthless Edit – advice from Rick Rubin, on Jim Nielsen’s blog, that is so immediately relevant to my current circumstance. Reminds me of this post I saw from Dr. Jason Fox

NYTimes on early retirement: The schemers and savers obsessed with ending their careers as early as possible

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Incoming WE 2024-09-01

Links

5G was an overhyped dud. 5G … wasn’t a revolution so much as an evolution of existing tech. Not to say 5G doesn’t bring value, but faster, lower latency networks that are easier to maintain simply isn’t sexy, and to keep boosting marketing and investment returns in this increasingly unhinged attention economy, companies are routinely motivated to embrace the preposterous.

Flux Review No. 158 builds on "Conway’s Law" to talk about Conway’s Mirror: the gap between lofty ideas and realized artifacts of an organization can be used to understand when the aspirational — and sometimes even official — organizational structure is not aligned with the effective structure and shadow processes that tend to be followed in practice.

Podcasts

Hidden Brain featured more than any other in the last couple of weeks.

  • Taking Control of Your Time – log what you’re doing and how you’re feeling every half hour or so. Be specific. Use this log to review what you really want to be spending time and energy on.
  • The Gift of Other People; How to make our interactions with other people more rewarding.
  • The Enemies of Gratitude: It’s easier to focus on what’s going wrong that on what’s going right. How to feel gratitude for the things that are going right in our live.

Quotes

When you’re traveling, you are what you are right there and then. People don’t have your past to hold against you. No yesterdays on the road.
–William Least Heat-Moon, travel writer

Words

Gesticulate: Express with emotion, an anagram of ‘it gets a clue’
Petulance: A bad temper. Cat or dog you spear
Quire: Paper parchment, four sheets of paper folded to make 16 pages
Floe: Ice field

Incoming 2024-08-20

Links

Pretty weak this week on the information consumption.

I wanted to share this article about Theory of Control with a colleague who is keen to step up into a leadership role, but is feeling stuck
Our Theory of Control can become miscalibrated whenever we fail to receive — or fail to recognize — the feedback to an action we took; to acknowledge the human impact that materialized in both spoken and unspoken ways; to confront the imprint left by what we did (or didn’t do).

The transition from individual contributor to team member or leader presents a critical juncture where our Theory of Control is put to the test.

Podcasts

Hidden Brain: You are not the boss of me How we sabotage ourselves when told we must do something, or must not do something else.

Quotes

I’ve never been married, but I tell people I’m divorced so they won’t think something’s wrong with me.
–Elayne Boosler, comedian

Words

Mostly because I’ve been solving more cryptic crosswords recently

Gruyere: (groo-yeah) Swiss cheese
pomander: a ball made for perfumes
Snood: a net to hold hair in place
Truancy: Neglect of work or duty, absence without permission

Incoming WE 2024-08-11

Links

Back to doing cryptic puzzles, after such a long hiatus. Found Lovatt’s Daily Cryptic to start getting back into it.

This is fascinating: a mission to cut food waste launched a multi-million dollar business. We’re rescuing a ridiculous amount of food from the local supermarkets, and much of that would have gone to the tip otherwise.

Lewis Lapham – Momento Mori – how I’d love to write like this! The wonders of medical science raked from the ashes of the war gave notice of the likelihood that soon, maybe next month but probably no later than next year, death would be reclassified as a preventable disease.

The Dawn Chorus is a collection of bird song from around the world. I found one from a place I grew up in!

Phil Gyford wrote a python script to automate the task of blocking spam addresses in a mailbox.

Heat, fuel, and oxygen are the ingredients of a fire, and applying it in a education setting is the subject of Jeremy Weinstein’s post on NoTosh. My young fella is also obsessed with fires so the Swedish Torch technique here will be of much interest to him.

Hendrik Karlsson’s post on the design process of his life had this gem of a video from Ryan Singer describing what Form Context Fit is (Christopher Alexander’s book Notes on the Sythesis of Form)

Oliver Burkeman: What does it mean to be ‘done for the day‘?

Anthony Howard: What are your tips for hearing another perspective? The story he shares about watching "Sale of the Century" on TV – the same body of water being called by two different names doesn’t make one of them wrong! Strait of Calais = The English Channel.

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Podcasts

A McKinsey conversation led by Raju Narisetti on leadership

Quotes

Volunteerism relies on an unsustainable supply of free labour. It is beset by internal strife, burnout, and lack of resources. People like their comfortable and bourgeois lives – cosplaying as a relief worker eventually becomes tiresome.
– Terence Eden in a review of Lifehouse by Adam Greenfield

The transition from tenseness, self-responsibility, and worry to equanimity, receptivity, and peace is the most wonderful of all those shiftings of inner equilibrium, those changes of personal center of energy.
–William James

Words & concepts

Too cheap to meter: a commodity so inexpensive that it is cheaper and less bureaucratic to simply provide it for a flat fee or even free. Have mobile data and minutes become like this, but telcos don’t know how else to make money on their investments? Water metering was introduced as a conservation measure in NY city!

Saice or Sais: A groom, or servant with responsibility for the horses

Music

hey, nothing is a new find. Loved listening to their music on Bandcamp.

Incoming WE 2024-08-03

Links

Nitin Khanna has the same problem I’ve found myself in lately: Addled in endless YouTube shorts. We can’t be going into our 40s getting sucked into echo chambers and algorithmic escapes. That’s not the way to live a life.

Heard briefly about Semantic Link on this talk by Stephanie Bruno & Mike Carlo. Probably an overkill for what I’m about to embark on, but will keep an eye on it for now.

Ryder Carroll’s short 6 min video about bullet journals had a reminder of how to start with an intention, list the actions that will get you to that outcome, and filter them down to 3 behaviours – and only then track them in a notebook.

What were Medieval Attitudes Towards Sex? is a look into the pleasures of the Middle Ages with narrator Eleanor Janega. Hilarious and educational at the same time.

Jefferson Fisher: How to have a difficult conversation – watch this and make some notes for my own use.

Robin Reames: How Rhetoric Shapes Your Opinions and her book The Ancient Art of Thinking for Yourself.

Ben Werdmuller: What I want to see from every product team

Dave’s Garage – An ex-Windows developer explains the Crowdstrike outage event
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Jeremy Connell-White shared this talk by Virgin Abloh "What’s your signature".

Kurt Armstrong: Repair and remain Repair and remain. Work with what you’ve got. Sit still for a moment, take stock, make some changes. Big changes, if necessary.

Podcasts

Roger Martin on Lenny’s Podcast: 5 essential questions to craft a winning strategy

Re-listening to "The Influence You Have" on the Hidden Brain podcast

Quotes

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
–Ralph Waldo Emerson

There is a social expectation and social pressure to show that you, too, are aware of what is happening in the world, and that you are taking the good/right/moral side. Whether on social media or in the ‘real world’, there is a social expectation for you to be aware of whatever dramas are playing out that the media has chosen to highlight at that point in time, and have an educated perspective on them.
–Tara Kemp

“Perspective has an expiration date, no matter how hard you try to hold on to it.”
-Frank Guidera, restaurateur

Done shouldn’t mean done forever!
–Nicole van der Hoeven talking about notes.

Resilience can be found by holding onto our certainties just a little less tightly. One way to do that is to remember just how often the old ones fade away.
–Seth Godin

Words

Milquetoast: Caspar Milquetoast is a fictional character created by H. T. Webster for his comic strip The Timid Soul. Webster described Caspar Milquetoast as "the man who speaks softly and gets hit with a big stick". The character’s name is derived from a bland and fairly inoffensive food, milk toast, which, light and easy to digest, is an appropriate food for someone with a weak or "nervous" stomach.

mensh: a person of integrity and honor

Raffish: To be disreputable

Sapid: Tasty, strong aromatic taste

Incoming WE 2024-07-27

Links

Athole McLauchlan in NoTosh: Eight metaphors to understand what you feel in the context of a transition. I’m thinking about this too, as I transition from a year of healing, a simpler life, and pursuits that had their roots in my childhood. A modified version of Sitting quietly and alone on the dock of the bay, watching the sunset and the tide roll away appeals to me: sunrise instead of a sunset. [[_Personal Development]]

Manuel Moreale explores "what even is a community?" The definition he begins with resonates Communities may share a sense of place. Indigenous cultures know this intuitively, and the modern ones seem to treat it like fish ‘think’ about water. Whether a physical location or a digital space, having roots matters. [[_Community 🧑‍🤝‍🧑]]

Recommended by Kevin Kelly to watch this conversation at a Long Now seminar: What the Dying Teaches the Living by Frank Ostaseski. [[_Personal Development]]

May be interesting to JJ?

A “long conversation” is a new format for a conference. Two speakers begin a conversation on stage. After 15 minutes one of the two speakers is replaced by a new speaker and the conversation continues, and every 15 minutes for the next 8 hours a speaker is swapped out. (Each speaker converses for 30 minutes.) The day is engaging, unpredictable, passionate, diverse, informative, and entertaining. It’s a format invented by Long Now Foundation that is worth stealing.

Podcasts

Tim Ferris in conversation with Derek Sivers and Kevin Kelly in a double podcast.

Quotes

Don’t just stand there with your hair turning gray,
soon enough the seas will sink your little island.
So while there is still the illusion of time,
set out for another shore.
No sense packing a bag.
You won’t be able to lift it into your boat.
Give away all your collections.
Take only new seeds and an old stick.
Send out some prayers on the wind before you sail.
Don’t be afraid.
Someone knows you’re coming.
An extra fish has been salted.
–Mona (Sono) Santacroce (1928 – 1995)
Quoted by Frank Ostaseski in his Long Now talk What the Dying Teach The Living

Words

Incoming WE 2024-07-20

Links

Google Experiments: Say What You See. Being able to describe what you see is a skill that is useful not just for prompt-engineering, which this seems to be targeted towards, but to describe the world around me with more use of as many of my senses as possible.

A collection of boundary phrases – short sentences that assertively set boundaries without creating conflict. "I need you to help me", "I understand you need my help, but I cannot work on this right now", "Im not available" are some that I need in my vocabulary more, along with the reminder that "No" is a complete sentence on its own.

Terence Eden’s review of Ken Banks’ book "Pursuit of Purpose", specifically this part makes me want to read it:

Ken is relentlessly practical. He explains how to examine what works and what doesn’t. How to assess whether you’re able to solve a problem and what to do in the face of adversity. Whereas an American book might be self-aggrandising and cult-like, Ken’s approach is almost ego-less and much more structured around how to build a movement for continual change.

Rishad Tobaccowala in Future proofing careers offers 3 behaviours to incorporate into the "company of one" mindset: being in charge of your own career (think like the HR/L&D department), building a reputation for generosity internally and externally, and investing in 3 key skills. The fractal nature of RT’s post structure is endlessly fascinating to me, as is his writing.

Tiago Forte writes about a workshop he attended about money, and this somatic reaction:

Eventually, once my body had completed its process, I was able to complete the sentence: that I had projected onto money that only it had the capacity to make change in the world, when in fact, that was just a way of avoiding facing the reality that it was me who had that capacity.

I’m currently reading Forte’s book Building a Second Brain. Putting into practice the third of his CODE methodology (Capture, Organise, Distill, Express) is the primary purpose.

Bernardo Kastrup: Computer Scientists Don’t Understand This makes the case that AI can never be sentient, even as the hype for AGI reaches feverish heights.

Robin Rendle: Stop calling yourself an IC So: stop calling yourself and your coworkers “ICs”. You are a designer, an engineer, a producer. Your contribution deserves more than a moniker that is made to dehumanize you, purpose-built to make you replaceable. Do not help this dehumanizing system to dehumanize you by normalizing this kind of language!

Ben Kuhn: Trust as a bottleneck to growing teams quickly suggests some ways to invest more effort in trusting others, along with how to help other people trust you. Both groups of ideas are sensible advice.

Jim Nielsen verbalises well, with help from Johny Ive, what I’ve been struggling to express: Language is a powerful design tool. Language is so powerful. If [I say] I’m going to design a chair, think how dangerous that is. Because you’ve just said chair, you’ve just said no to a thousand ideas.

I read this McKinsey report on CFO Perspectives on the future of finance to get a general sense of priorities to focus on in my next assignment/experiment. Unsurprisingly, my mental model of back-office tasks – past/present/future – as reporting/insights & analysis/forecasting & planning is echoed in this article.

Ness Labs: How to be a better reader. Some strategies: Understand the authors purpose, adjust your reading rate, annotate the content, paraphrase, use chunking, connect the dots, organise information visually, evaluate the content, consult a reference, or summarise the ideas. Doing this in public offers additional benefits for the time spent – others may find it useful too.

Ran Prieur’s note shares a mental health tip that I discovered myself too a few weeks ago: (to make change to yourself, do it at the micro scale…. catch somethign you want to change, while it’s happening. Self-awareness in the moment helps to pause, and gives other ‘affordances’ – choices to make. Takes practice, lots of it. And like exercise, you get better in ways you do not expect.

Steve Blank describes the feeling I’ve had in my own career: change makes us fear what we are losing. And more importantly, how to think, and what to do about it.

Vsauce: Do Chairs Exist? I wrote down the word Ontology a few days ago, realising that I don’t actually understand what it means. This video was the third in a sequence to remind me of language as abstractions to describe our world.

Ryder Carroll gives a very useful distinction between time boxing and time blocking. Both are essential in very different ways. Time blocking is about protecting a specific time in one’s day for a particular task. Time boxing is about protecting your time from yourself. Without a time block, you might not start. Without a time box, you might not stop.

I will continue to keep an eye on the developments in the AI, not as obsessively as I did in the last year perhaps. Andrej Karpathy, Andrew Ng, and Simon Willison have earned my trust over the years so I pay heed. Andrej’s recent X about the spiral of model improvements but going in the opposite direction wrt size was also quoted by Simon: Therefore, the models have to first get larger before they can get smaller, because we need their (automated) help to refactor and mold the training data into ideal, synthetic formats.

Bob Ewing: The Undelivered Eulogy for Apollo 11. Nixon was prepared with a speech in the event the astronauts remained on the moon. The speech was written by William Safire, and Ewing describes the tools of rhetoric that were used in it: anaphora (repetition of phrase at the beginning of successive clauses), antithesis (contrasting ideas in phrases), epizeuxis (repetition of a phrase for emphasis).

Lateral Reading, a concept I was unaware of until I read it on Tracel Durnell’s Weeknotes today, is fascinating. A study involving students, historians, and fact checkers, and their ability to smell out

Podcasts

Hidden Brain: Changing our Mental Maps A conversation with Norman Farb, psychologist and neuroscientist at University of Toronto. Our reliance on Google Maps can get us lost, as the opening story about a couple who got lost in the Australian bush. The maps are not the territory. This is a fascinating conversation about the implications of our internal maps on the way we navigate the world.

On the What’s it to be like podcast, two episodes this week: a high school principal and a mystery novelist.

I tried out a new podcast this week: Future Learning Design. I listened to a conversation on An Indigenous Renaissance with Dr. Marie Battiste, a Canadian First Nations human. Language is an abstraction, and we often forget that. The wisdom of traditional civilisations were/are dismissed as "primitive" by a euro-centric view, over the last few generations. The violence pervades education too, is Dr. Battiste’s position.

Quotes

So much of knowledge/intelligence involves translating ideas between fields (domains). Those domains are walls the keep ideas siloed. But LLMs can help break those walls down and encourage humans to do more interdisciplinary thinking, which may lead to faster discoveries. And note that I am implying that humans will make the breakthroughs, using LLMs as translation tools when appropriate, to help make connections. LLMs are strongest as translators of information that you provide. BYOD: Bring your own data! –Benj Edwards,

“Conjure a positive, expansive outlook by creating a ‘luck diary’. Record a good thing that happened that day, or something bad from the past that’s not happening anymore.”
-Richard Wiseman, Author, The Luck Factor

In the case of good books, the point is not to see how many of them you can get through, but rather how many can get through to you.
– Mortimer Adler

Words

Aporia:

  1. A figure of speech in which the speaker expresses or purports to be in doubt about a question.
  2. An insoluble contradiction or paradox in a text’s meanings.
  3. A figure in which the speaker professes to be at a loss what course to pursue, where to begin to end, what to say, etc.
  4. An expression of deliberation with oneself regarding uncertainty or doubt as to how to proceed.

Elide:

  1. Omit (a sound or syllable) when speaking.
  2. Join together; merge (large chunks of time are elided in a movie)

Incoming WE 2024-07-13

Links and posts

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  • Maggie Appleton paints a vivid picture of the possibilities that LLM’s open up for non-professional developers to create software tools for their own problems in Home Cooked Software and Barefoot Developers. This resonates strongly with my hope for change in the local community through locally focused efforts, echoes what Kentaro Toyama spoke about in this Technology Myths section of the [[Podcast – Work for Humans – Kentaro Toyama – Confronting Techno-optimism | podcast on Work for Humans]]
  • Email like a boss – choices of words to use
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  • Richard Merrick’s reflections of the week include a brief riff on limits, and what they mean. Worth a ponder on this topic of limits or constraints.
  • FixmyStreet.org and the team behind it are worth a gander?
  • Tracy Durnell on Finding Common Ground.

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  • Erick Nehrlich: What are the daily habits that lead to better long-term decisions? Unlike software engineering where you can write, deploy and test code nearly instantly, leadership choices don’t afford the same feedback time.

  • Ewan McIntosh: The story they tell isn’t what you told them.. Quoting GB Shaw, "The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." Comprehension is important than saying the right words, applies in the family and personal context as much as in the professional one.

  • Margaret Wheatley: Understanding organisations as living systems I had flashbacks of the ‘learning’ system I created (the talks). This sentence, in particular, is an astute description of what I attempted to do: To truly understand an organization as a living system, we need to determine what the system finds meaningful. One way to do this is to think of our “interventions” as indications of what the system notices. This method can reveal a lot about what is going on inside the system—what motivates and inspires it, and how information moves through it.

  • What to the slave is the Fourth of July? Frederick Douglass’s speech that I’d never known about until today. Have put it on my "to listen" list, because David W Blight’s persuasive explanation why this speech is such a masterpiece

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  • Darius Foroux has a point of view on how to design a life that gives you freedom. Define YOUR concept of freedom (financial, time, emotional, physical), pick your freedom model (business, real estate, stocks, career), set your expectations (5 years? a decade?), and have extreme discipline (easier said than done, especially if you’re worried about the next meal or rent cheque, a scenario I suspect the author has never had to worry about).
  • David Cain from Sequoia on the revenue from AI But we need to make sure not to believe in the delusion that has now spread from Silicon Valley to the rest of the country, and indeed the world. That delusion says that we’re all going to get rich quick, because AGI is coming tomorrow, and we all need to stockpile the only valuable resource, which is GPUs.
  • Mark Cruth of Atlassian shared this EOFY reflection/self-assessment. It felt almost like he knew

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  • Ryan Holiday: This is why you don’t want to tell yourself stories We must resist the impulse to reverse engineer success from our understanding of other people’s stories. When we achieve our own, we must resist the desire to pretend that everything unfolded exactly as we’d planned. There was no grand narrative. You should remember—you were there when it happened.

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New words:

Unctuous: Excessively flattering or ingratiating, oily, having a greasy feel

Quotes

The artist and the entrepreneur find their authentic selves not by who they love or hate, or what they believe, or what feats they perform…(they) discover themselves by what they create. They don’t know before they create it.
-Steven Pressfield

How can you combine your strength? That’s something I would encourage everyone to think about. You will find talented people in every area of life. It’s the combinations that are rare."
– James Clear

"In every challenge or even tragedy, there is an opportunity. And if you train yourself to look for the opportunity, you will be able to take control of the situation and even turn it into a positive or if it can’t be turned into something good, at least something good could come out of it."
– Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson

Just because it feels easy at first doesn’t mean that it’s a worthwhile career path.
–Seth Godin, Kazoo lessons

My Greek friend declared, “I don’t worry about what most people think. Most people don’t think, at least not reflectively. And when they do think, they think mostly about themselves, not about me. Besides, you cannot ever know what other people really think – and you cannot trust them to tell you the whole truth if asked – we have many reasons to edit our thoughts for public consumption. Moreover, my own thinking is often so contradictory or confused or in flux that even I can’t say what I really think.”
–From a post by Robert Fulghum

"Against criticism we can neither protect nor defend ourselves; we must act in despite of it, and gradually it resigns itself to this."
–Goethe

2024-05-30 Links

Daily Reads:

I re-listened to Esther Perel and Trevor Noah conversation "Sex, Comedy and Context". They’re both splendid interviewers. I hear it in their voices, how they inflect and echo each other. The imagery I had most of the time was two graceful dancers bringing each others talents to life. Sometimes, it was two fencers – I don’t know the precise language of fencing for analogy but balestra sounds right for now – making a fast jump forwards to make a point, then back to dancing. Noah’s ‘huh’ when he’s impressed, Perel’s silence when she wants Noah to elaborate, helping each other peel the layers off their ideas… it is an exemplar to learn from.

On Hidden Brain’s Innovation 2.0 series, Leidy Klotz talks about doing less. Companies reward the idea of doing more – more people to manage, more projects under supervision etc… – but innovation comes often from doing less. There may be fewer artefacts to show for this effort to reduce, but simplifying is a life principle that both Stoics and good engineers seem to have in common.

Deirdre Cerminaro on Dart Lindsley’s podcast Work for Humans made several observations that took my breath away. She’s taken a few months off from work to design her own life. She brings human centred design and systems thinking together, with the idea that practitioners of either disciplines can learn problem solving with the tools and techniques of the other.

QOTD:

We love those who know the worst of us and don’t turn their faces away.
-Walker Percy, author

Music:

Muddy Waters sings the Bus Driver blues 😆